一个人对亲人暴躁，对外人和气，原因竟是……
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><section contenteditable="false" class=""><section powered-by="xiumi.us" contenteditable="false" class=""><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><section powered-by="xiumi.us" contenteditable="false" class=""><section contenteditable="false" class=""><section powered-by="xiumi.us" contenteditable="false" class=""><section contenteditable="false" class=""><section powered-by="xiumi.us" contenteditable="false" class=""><section contenteditable="false" class=""><section powered-by="xiumi.us" contenteditable="false" class=""><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="padding-right: 15px;padding-left: 15px;color: rgb(85, 85, 86);font-size: 15px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">刚结婚一年的闺蜜跟我吐槽，老公现在一到家里，就板着个脸：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“做个饭做这么半天，不知道我几点下班？”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">接着就把婆婆拿的旧报纸往垃圾桶里摔：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“家里弄得跟狗窝似的，是人待的地方么？”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">全家看他脸色。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">直到老公电话铃响，他绝对是点头哈腰地笑着：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“有事您叫我，随时有空。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">闺蜜有回憋不住火，唠叨了两句：“也不知道谁是外人。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">而老公眉头又皱起来：“瞎喊什么，能过就过，不能过就离！”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">弄得她一肚子委屈。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">就像有句话说的：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="30" data-source-title="" contenteditable="false"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" contenteditable="false"><section contenteditable="false" class=""><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">越是亲近的人，越是容易耍无赖。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">吵不散的人，才更娴熟于辜负。</p></section></section></blockquote><p contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">跟陌生的人客气，对亲近的人苛刻，太多人是如此。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">其中原因不复杂，反而简单得扎心。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-align: center;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">看见过一句话：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="57" data-source-title="" contenteditable="false"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" contenteditable="false"><section contenteditable="false" class=""><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">我是个窝里横的人，我告诉你为什么，因为懦弱，胆怯，在外面不敢横，怕被打。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">在家里横，是因为在外面不敢横，我很羞愧。</p></section></section></blockquote><p contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">有人窝里横，就总有人在默默忍耐。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">一位匿名网友说：“自己平常脾气不错，一面对父母就忍不住说重话。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">她在外地，生日时接到父母电话：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“生日快乐，等下发个红包给你贺贺。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">因为本来钱也够用，加上手头还有事，她随口敷衍说：“不用了。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">听老爸坚持说：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“要的，你在外面，生日发个红包还是要有的。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">她又莫名地开始烦躁：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“都说不用就是不用了，没空了，我先挂了！”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">看看通话记录，才不到30秒，网友瞬间觉得自己像个人渣。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">可就在当天，她不仅收到了老爸的红包，还收到了二姐的一串红包。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">她瞬间泪崩了，二姐从来不记她生日，她能想到，是父亲提醒的。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="text-align: center;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">这世界没有人是一座孤岛，那些冬天为你搓手，夏天为你扇风，深夜为你留灯的人，都在用力地证明，你是值得被爱的人。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>爱你的人，总是想方设法护着你。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>可惜我们，却总在权衡着利弊。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">心里的苦无法消化，和外人发火，别人不惯你，和家人发火，却会被原谅。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">因为被爱，所以无所顾忌。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-align: center;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">一直有种说法，跟你发脾气，那是跟你亲，把你当自己人。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">但仔细想想，这不是很自私吗？</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">身边人的伤害，更让人扎心。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="text-align: center;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">综艺《四大名助》里有个老婆吐槽老公，发脾气除了对她，就是对他自己爸妈。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">朋友面前他是老好人，从来不说重话。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">别人凌晨要去机场，他也赶着去送，任谁看都是仗义友善。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">等到老婆买了新包新鞋，他的态度就完全变了，单单觉得不好看就会骂：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“你真是没品位。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“你给我换回来，真不该把你当人看，你就是贱！”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">或者直接摔门出去。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">出门五分钟的路程，让他送一下，他出口就是：“你自己没长腿啊？”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">就连去录节目当天，他还因为行李箱的小事破口大骂，音频一放出来，全场都沉默了。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>谩骂声，砸东西的声音，不绝于耳。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">老婆回想起过往的种种，在台上不停地擦着眼泪。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">都说家丑不可外扬，当一个人将伤疤揭开，在人前放声大哭，一定是受够了委屈。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">理解和关爱，都是互相的。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">谁都有喜怒哀乐，谁都有心，做你的出气筒，家人不是活该。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">一禅小和尚曾说：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="53" data-source-title="" contenteditable="false"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" contenteditable="false"><section contenteditable="false" class=""><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">所谓死心，就是一个慢慢累计失望的过程。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">一次次伤心，一次次绝望，心火也随之熄灭。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">等攒够了失望，也就该离开了。</p></section></section></blockquote><p contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">别等过成了悲剧，再暗自后悔。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">别等亲人伤透了心，才想起家中本该是爱和欢喜。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-align: center;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">周国平说过：</p><blockquote class="js_blockquote_wrap" data-type="2" data-url="" data-author-name="" data-content-utf8-length="30" data-source-title="" contenteditable="false"><section class="js_blockquote_digest" contenteditable="false"><section contenteditable="false" class=""><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">对亲近的人挑剔是本能，但克服本能，对亲近的人不挑剔是种教养。</p></section></section></blockquote><p contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">对家人和颜悦色，也许真的更难，因为它是演不出来的。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">最隐秘处，正是最真实的教养。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">马东在《奇葩说》中讲到母亲看电视购物，就是普通的包，她花了930块钱，还像捡了大便宜。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">广告里说的皇家定制款，明显全是忽悠人。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">说原价19800，现在打折，更是营销手段，看看材质就知道，又是一笔冤枉钱。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">但他明白，父亲去世早，他又不能常常陪着，这种“省钱”的小小慰藉，是母亲唯一的快乐。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">他就高兴地哄着母亲：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“眼光真好，真是买到好东西了。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>骨子里的教养，一件小事就能看出。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>至深的情感，都在你的态度里。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="text-align: center;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">纪录片《亲爱的，不要跨过那条江》里，老夫妻相守了76年，一生都是恩爱的。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">奶奶笑着回忆从前：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">“结了婚他就再没惹过我生气了，因为怕伤害我，只想紧紧地把我抱住，想想真的挺感激的。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">时常摸耳朵的安慰，也成了夫妻俩的小习惯。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">对家人的和颜悦色，最不应该是装出来的。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">当你真心为了家人着想，不会觉得累，对他们好，看他们笑的每一次，你都会收获满足感。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>你可以放心地摘下面具，卸下伪装，那是因为爱他们，就是你的本来样子。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">把好脾气留在家里，收获的将是最真实的幸福。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-align: center;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">世上总有你不得不讨好的人，但也总有些人，是你真正喜欢的。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">在不喜欢的人那里丢掉快乐，又在喜欢的人那里忘记快乐，那样不值得。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">离你最近的人，更需要小心呵护，好好珍惜。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class="">1、多换位</span></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">《平如美棠》里，饶平如劳动改造时期，只能给妻子寄信。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">有时妻子给他写：“我很气你，我越写越气。”</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">把笔一扔，一两个月不再来信。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">他想想妻子要带孩子，每天背水泥受的苦，就脾气全消，只剩下心疼。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">家人之间，没那么多对错是非。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">站在对方的角度想想，当你心里不再只有自己，脾气也不会来得太轻易。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>2、多冷静</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">心理学有研究发现，人在愤怒的时候，会出现“意识狭窄”现象。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">眼里盯着坏事，看不到别的，自然都是负面情绪。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">但只要你停下来，听听音乐，看看书，都比吵一架舒服。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">沉默地离开现场，或是静静地自己待着，权当是自己疗伤。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">等到你舒缓下来，遇事平和，面对爱的人，可以有话好好说。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>3、多感恩</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">作家晚晴有个读者，</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">以前要么对家人冷暴力，不断压抑自己，要么干脆大发脾气，把家里弄得鸡飞狗跳。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">后来她开始往好处看：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">孩子爱看电视，她就制定了计划和奖惩规则，每次孩子完成了，她就发自内心地赞美。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">老公下厨，她本来觉得理所当然，也开始夸他，渐渐觉得在大门口就闻见饭菜香，真的很舒服。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br></p><p style="text-align: center;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">感恩多了，就造就了快乐，快乐积攒多了，好事就会源源不断。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">再讨好外人，你也不过演着他们生命中的配角。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">笑对身边人，你才真正主宰了自己的生活。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">对亲人暴躁，对外人和气，总会不知不觉失去很多，等到幡然醒悟，身边早已空无一人。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>想想我们穷极一生，不过为了眼中景，碗中餐，身边人。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><span style="color: rgb(45, 45, 48);" contenteditable="false" class=""><strong>而你的态度，其实你一直有选择。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class="">对身边的人再好一点吧。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;" contenteditable="false" class=""><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><br><br></div><p></p> 还真是没有脾气对父母发的多 看到这个，我都想给家里爸爸妈妈打电话 我真的难受
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